5 Ways to Apply Outward Bound to Life Back Home
You’ve completed Outward Bound, and that sets you in a category so special and powerful that hopefully you walk around with a great sense of accomplishment. If, however, now that your course is over, you find yourself trying to apply it to daily life back home, keep some of the following tips in mind:
1. Keep the Letters Coming.
Remember your solo letter? All the time you spent establishing your 6 month goals and where you’d like to see yourself in half a year? Do that regularly. Write a letter about your goals for the next 6 months, then tuck it away or give it to a trusted friend that can mail it to you down the road. Write down your goals and where you’d like to be. Writing them down and then knowing that letter is coming in the mail will help you be more aware of your goals and how you are, or aren’t, moving towards them.
2. Keep Moving.
Whether you began your Outward Bound course as a seasoned mountaineer or a couch potato, you probably got more exercise on your course than you do everyday at home. So once you’re home, keep moving. Don’t just stroll — power walk, run, climb at the local gym, ski, whatever works for your environment. Staying active will keep you in touch with and proud of your physical self.
3. Be a Nature Lover.
Some alumni appreciate nature before their course, some really discover it during course, and others can’t wait to leave the trail and hit a Starbucks. Either way, keep some sort of connection with nature after you get back home. It can be hiking, sitting in the park on a sunny afternoon, or keeping a calendar with photos of nature on your desk. Not only will it be a touchstone for your time out in the field with Outward Bound, but it will also remind you of just how simple things can be, and how wonderfully powerless we really are.
4. Stay In Touch.
It’s so easy after you get home to just spend time with people from your pre-Outward Bound life. Friends and family members want to know all about your adventure, which is great, but they weren’t there. They didn’t see you belay while your forearms burned, or sprint the last mile of your P.C.E. Your group members, on the other hand, got a first hand glimpse of who you were during this intense experience. As you re-immerse yourselves back into the daily grind, stay in touch by phone or e-mail and help keep each other connected to what went on out there, and the potential impact it can have on life back home.
5. Remember Who You Were Out There.
Here’s the toughest, but maybe most important, part. You probably felt good about yourself at specific times during your course. Really good. Like you could do anything, be anything, believe anything. Some of your greatest strengths came through and served both you and your group members in times of desperate need. These were pivotal moments that showed who you are and what you want to be. The key is to carry that sense of yourself back home into every day, relationship, and situation that you can. What made you feel so great? Cleaning the pots an extra turn even though it was pouring rain? Telling the jokes that kept people laughing instead of crying? Talking yourself into the last few yards of that rocky, alpine climb? Whatever it was, do it at home. Go the extra mile. Help others. Push yourself beyond. Stay Outward Bound, even when familiar circumstances and routines tempt you to fall back into old habit.
Remember Kurt Hahn’s words, “Outward Bound can ignite, that is all. It is for you to keep the flame alive” have never been more applicable, more powerful, or more true than they are in today’s world. And your role as an Outward Bound alumnus has never been more important, more needed, or more powerful as you create and maintain your post-Outward Bound life.
About the Author: Amanda Straus is a Professional Coach and Owner of The Next Step, a company dedicated to helping people apply the benefits of outdoor adventure to daily life. She offers a complimentary coaching session for individuals who are interested in learning more about how coaching can support them in their effort to apply Outward Bound to every day life. To schedule a session, e-mail Amanda at mailto:amanda@next-step-coach.com amanda@next-step-coach.com or call 704.451.8622. You can also check out her program at next-step-coach.com next-step-coach.com